Lapho izihambeli zifika, izinja eziningi ziba nesasasa futhi zikhonkothe ​​izihambeli kusukela lapho zizwa insimbi kagesi, kodwa okubi nakakhulu, ezinye izinja zizogijima ziyocasha noma zenze ezinolaka.Uma inja ingafundi indlela yokuphatha izivakashi ngendlela efanele, ayesabi nje kuphela, inamahloni, futhi iwukuvala kwangempela.Ukuze ungavumeli i-faux pas yenja yakho yonakalise ubungane benu, kufanele ufundise inja yakho indlela efanele yokwazi izivakashi zakho.

Ukuze inja yakho ifunde ukusebenzelana nezivakashi, ungathola abangani abangakusiza ngokuzivocavoca, bahlele ukuthi beze endlini yakho, futhi bethule inja yakho.

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Beka inja entanjeni ukuze ingabi nalo ithuba lokugijimela emnyango futhi iphonse izivakashi, bese iyala ukuthi ihlale phansi.Khumbula!Qiniseka ukuthi ugcina inja yakho izolile ngokuyitshela ukuthi ihlale futhi iyeke ukukhonkotha ngezwi elibushelelezi, eliqinile.Uma ehlezi, mnike umvuzo omuhle ngokuthula lapho izivakashi zivakasha, uqinise ukuziphatha kwakhe okungakhonkothi ngendlela eyakhayo.

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Lapho isivakashi singena emnyango, ungakwazi ukuthinta isivakashi ngesandla sakho futhi unikeze inja iphunga lesandla esinukayo sesivakashi.Bese uhlalisa isivakashi phansi usicele ukuthi abambe ukudla okulula kwenja okuyintandokazi.Bese ungenisa inja bese uyisondeza kusivakashi.Usafuna ukubopha ngomthofu ngalesi sikhathi, ungakuvumeli ukuthi ushiye eceleni kwakho.Uma ingayeki ukukhonkotha, yisuse futhi uyibuyise lapho ithule.

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Uma inja isithule futhi ibonakala ikhululekile, ungakwazi ukumema umuntu ukuba amlethele ukudla okulula akuthandayo kodwa ungabhekani nenja.Kuvamile ukuthi ezinye izinja zingase zesabe ukudla, ungamphoqi, azinqumele ukuthi uyafuna ukukuthatha.Uma ethukile futhi engakwazi ukukhululeka, kufanele umyise endaweni lapho ezizwa ephephile khona ukuba aphumule.Ungajahi.Kwesinye isikhathi kudinga ukuzijwayeza kakhulu ukujwayela inja.

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Uma inja ifuna ukudla ukudla okulula, kodwa isixwayiso esithile, phatha umuntu ukuthi abeke ukudla okulula kancane endaweni yakhe, ake inja idle, bese kancane kancane ibeka ukudla okulula eduze, ukuze inja isondele kuye ngokungazi.Khumbula ukucela izivakashi ukuthi zingayigqolozeli inja, kungenjalo izosaba ukudla.
Ngemva kokuzijwayeza okuningi, uma inja izimisele ukudla isiphuzo esivela kusivakashi, vumela inja ihogele isandla sesivakashi, kodwa cela inja ukuthi ingayithinti inja, lokhu kuziphatha kungase kwethuse inja.

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Ezinye izinja zizokhonkotha kungazelelwe noma zijabule lapho isivakashi sisukuma noma sesizohamba.Umniniyo akufanele athulise inja ngokuthula, kodwa aqhubeke eyiyala ukuba ihlale phansi futhi ithule, futhi ibambe intambo ukuze ingagxumi kuye.Lapho inja ithule, yipha kamnandi.

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Uma inja isivele isijwayele isivakashi futhi inobungane (ukuhogela isivakashi, ukutshikizisa umsila, nokwenza ngokucobelelana), ungavumela isivakashi ukuba sifuye inja ekhanda futhi siyincome noma siyivuze.Izinja ezivame ukwesaba izivakashi zivame ukungakhululeki kubantu ezingabazi ngenxa yokuthi azikaze zihlangane nabantu nezinto ezingaphandle komhlaba kusukela ebuntwaneni.Ezinye izinja ziqaphile ngokwemvelo.Kodwa-ke, ngaphezu kokuqeqeshwa kokuziphatha komphakathi kusukela esemncane, yiba nesineke futhi usebenzise izinyathelo ezingenhla ngesinyathelo ngesinyathelo, ukuze izinja ezinamahloni zikwazi kancane kancane ukwazi izivakashi zazo futhi zenze ubungane nazo.